Have you ever felt that you just can’t get through to the opposite sex?
Sort of a love/hate relationship where the women try to help but the men don’t want the help and the men try to give answers when the women just want to be heard. If we could just step back from the direct situation, think of the bigger picture then tactfully express our understanding for the other person the entire dynamic of the relationship changes. It’s no longer a battle from opposite sides, we somehow morph into playing for the same team…instead of defending our own territory for the sake of it we listen to each other with a deeper understanding. This is the green zone where lasting solutions are found.